Grief

We all experience grief

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Grief, Loss, & Restoration

Specializing in Pet Loss, ICBC Bereavement, and Life Transitions

Strategic Support for Lasting Integration and Growth Grief is the natural response to a life-altering loss. Whether you are mourning a beloved family member, a companion animal, or the "pre-accident" version of yourself, your grief deserves a dedicated, clinical space. With 25 years of experience, I provide a secure, remote environment to help you move through the weight of loss toward resilience and renewed function.

1. Pet Loss & Companion Animal Grief

The bond we share with our animals is profound, yet the grief following their loss is often "disenfranchised" or minimized.

  • Validation & Safety: A non-judgmental space to honor the unique bond you shared.

  • Specialized Processing: Moving beyond the "just a pet" narrative to address the deep emotional impact of their absence.

2. ICBC Bereavement & "Loss of Function"

Grief following a motor vehicle accident is often complex. It can involve the loss of a loved one, but it also includes the grief of identity.

  • Secondary Loss: Support for the emotional toll of physical limitations, career shifts, or the loss of hobbies you once loved.

  • Direct Billing: Registered ICBC Provider with no out-of-pocket costs for authorized sessions.

3. General Grief & Life Transitions

Support for the "middle spaces" of life—divorce, retirement, or the passing of a family member—where the world feels different than it did before.

Path A: Compassionate Clinical Counselling

Traditional talk therapy is essential for making sense of your loss. It provides a dedicated space to tell your story, navigate the logistics of a life transition, and explore the "why" as you find ways to live forward.

Path B: Specialized Remote EMDR

Sometimes, grief becomes "stuck" in the nervous system, especially if the loss was sudden or traumatic. EMDR is highly effective when:

  • The Body is Stuck: You feel physical weight, racing thoughts, or "flashbacks" of final moments.

  • Traumatic Bereavement: We use EMDR to "unstick" the traumatic details so you can finally access the peaceful, loving memories of those you lost.

Ready to Begin?

I offer a Free 15-Minute Consultation to ensure my specialized approach to grief and loss is the right clinical fit for you.

👉 Text or Call: 250-616-2105 👉 Secure Email: rmiddletonconnections@proton.me